went to a quick birthday celebration of a 21 year old and bought a phallic cake from Cox Cookies & Cake - Brewer St … since I was passing – the man who sold it to me  wasn’t English –I could choose from a penis with brown icing as topping or a muscly  arm .. He said ‘I used to have tits’ and I said ‘ah well you can’t have everything’  ... until I got out of the  shop  I realised  he was talking about his cake topping collection .. And I thought I was being kind and  tolerant as usual.